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发表于 2022-11-18 17:36:49
异性之间，关系再好，也不要如此聊天
<p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;">01</strong></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;">作家三毛在《随想》文集中写道：朋友之间再亲密，分寸不可失。自以为熟，反易产生隔阂。</strong></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">网络上的一个问题，引起大家的热议。主题是：有了对象，要不要和异性朋友，保持距离？</span></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">问题的高赞回答是：保持距离，是有必要的。</span></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;">每个人都不是一座孤岛，我们有权利拥有自己的社交圈，但更有责任维护好异性朋友与亲密爱人的关系。</strong></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">由此，也产生出一个人际交往的必要词语：边界感。</span></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">俄罗斯作家邦达列夫说过：人类一切痛苦的根源，都源于缺乏边界感。异性</span><span style="max-width: 100%;">之间</span><span style="max-width: 100%;">也不例外。</span></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;"><span style="max-width: 100%;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">异性朋友之间边界感，是男女之间交往应该遵循的界限</span></span><span style="max-width: 100%;">。</span><span style="max-width: 100%;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">它如同一座雷池，一旦跨越便会引火烧身，两败俱伤。</span></span><br style="display: block; max-width: 100%;"/></strong></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">异性之间的相处，不是愈浓烈愈好，而是要恰到好处，恰如其分。</span></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">保持适当的边界感与分寸感，才是一段异性关系久处不厌的秘诀。</span></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">因此，异性之间，关系再好，也不要这样聊天。</span></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;">不了暧昧不清的话，保持好交往的距离，感情会纯粹而牢固。</strong></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">不去掺和对方的家务事，不干涉对方的家庭生活。清官难断家务事，费力不讨好的事情要少做。</span></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">不随意嘲讽对方的缺点。</span></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">“金无足赤，人无完人”，一句无心的玩笑话，也许就能磁场人心，留下伤疤。</span></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;">异性之间，关系再好，也要守好分寸感。在聊天的浓淡之间，有着最体面的交往方式。</strong></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;">02<br style="display: block; max-width: 100%;"/></strong></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;">异性之间，关系再好，不聊暧昧不清的话。</strong></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;">有人说：友情和爱情是两条永不相交的平行线，一旦打破平衡，就难以再保持从前的关系。</strong></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">异性朋友之间，再亲密，也要</span><span style="max-width: 100%;">“懂分寸，知进退”。</span></span></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">何炅和谢娜是娱乐圈里，公认的胜似亲情的</span><span style="max-width: 100%;">“朋友”。</span></span></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">那些跨越人潮的拥抱，那些十三年的相互扶持与陪伴，成为了彼此之间</span><span style="max-width: 100%;">“最好的幸福”。</span></span></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;"><span style="max-width: 100%;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">何炅和谢娜能维持</span><span style="max-width: 100%;">13</span><span style="max-width: 100%;">年的友谊，最重要的是彼此之间既亲密又具有边界感的关心与爱护。</span></span></strong></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">彼此交心，但守望分寸。坦荡的守护者亲密关系的边界，站在朋友的角度给予关心和理解。</span></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">不说可能让彼此误会的暧昧不清的话语，不让一句不负责任的暧昧话将两人置于尴尬的境地。</span></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">异性之间，关系再好，也不说暧昧不清的话。</span></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;">既然选择了做朋友，就要守好分寸与底线，让彼此之间干净而纯粹。</strong></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;">不为别的，只因为双方都足够珍惜与在乎这段友谊。</strong></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;">03</strong></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;">异性之间，关系再好，不掺和对方家务事。</strong></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">俗话说：家家有本难念的经。剪不断，理还乱。</span></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">但即使是千头万绪的繁杂事，它的领地也只限于</span><span style="max-width: 100%;">“家”。</span></span></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">再亲密的朋友，也难以插手干涉，反而容易引火烧身。</span></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;"><span style="max-width: 100%;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">被称为</span><span style="max-width: 100%;">“逻辑学之父”的学者金岳霖，始终有一个白月光藏于心间，那个人便是民国时期的才女林徽因。</span></span></strong></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">他为了林徽因终身不娶，退于朋友关系静静守候。</span></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">为了离</span><span style="max-width: 100%;">“心上人”近一点，金岳霖选择林徽因夫妇毗邻而居。</span></span></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">但面对林徽因与梁思成的吵架拌嘴，金岳霖除了宽慰几句，很少掺和他们夫妇的家事。</span></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">他深知，关系再好的异性，如果涉及对方家务事，除了费力不讨好，还会将彼此的关系愈推愈远。</span></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">因此，金岳霖一生守着朋友之间的分寸，默默陪伴。</span></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;">异性之间，关系再好，也不能掺和对方的家务事。</strong></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;">亲密有度，熟不逾矩，是异性好友之间最恰当好处的相处。</strong></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;">04<br style="display: block; max-width: 100%;"/></strong></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;">异性之间，关系再好，不随意嘲笑对方缺点。</strong></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;">常言道：出言有尺，戏谑有度。</strong></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">异性之间，关系再好，也要把握好说话的分寸。拿他人的痛楚开玩笑，再好的关系，也容易破裂。</span></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;">电影《初恋那件小事》里，收藏者许多人学生年代的暧昧情愫。</strong></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">女主角小水在变漂亮后，勇敢和暗恋的学长阿亮成为朋友。</span></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">但不为人知的是，在小水还是</span><span style="max-width: 100%;">“丑小鸭”的时期，阿亮学长就已经喜欢这个独特而有趣的女孩。</span></span></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;"><span style="max-width: 100%;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">他深知，小水对于</span><span style="max-width: 100%;">“美貌”的自卑，守护着她脆弱的自尊心，从不故意开玩笑戳她的痛处。</span></span></strong></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">异性之间，关系再好，也不能戳人痛处。分寸感是人与人之间交往的不二法门。</span></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">异性之间感情的长度，就取决于彼此之间做人做事的分寸。</span></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;">人与人之间关系再亲密，分寸不可差失。</span></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><br/></p><p style="overflow-y: auto; max-width: 100%; line-height: 30px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;">异性之间，关系再好，也不要如此聊天。唯有这样，彼此之间才能长长久久，相伴一生。</strong></p><p><br/></p><link rel="stylesheet" href="//www.shidaomedia.com/source/plugin/wcn_editor/public/wcn_editor_fit.css?v134_YZl" id="wcn_editor_css"/>
7701093888
发表于 2022-11-24 16:33:11
助人为乐是快乐之本
水瓶haotuo23
发表于 2022-12-3 19:52:12
我允许你走进我的世界,但不许你在我的世界里走来走去。
倒插曲
发表于 2022-12-30 20:55:35
没有动态的日子里都在认真生活。
lydddd
发表于 2023-1-10 11:01:31
我从未遇见过没对我失望的人。
风一样的少女
发表于 2023-1-15 06:52:19
从童年起，我便独自一人，照顾着历代星辰。
哼唱寂寞
发表于 2023-1-16 12:19:04
玻璃晴朗，橘子辉煌。
沙魔h
发表于 2023-1-19 21:33:40
楼主的帖子实在是写得太好了。文笔流畅，修辞得体，深得魏晋诸朝遗风，更将唐风宋骨发扬得入木三分，能在有生之年看见楼主的这个帖子。实在是我三生之幸啊。看完楼主的这个帖子之后，我竟产生出一种无以名之的悲痛感——啊，这么好的帖子，如果将来我再也看不到了，那我该怎么办?那我该怎么办?直到我毫不犹豫地把楼主的这个帖子收藏了，我内心的那种激动才逐渐平静下来。可是我立刻想到，这么好的帖子，倘若别人看不到，那么不是浪费楼主的心血吗?经过痛苦的思想斗争，我终于下定决心，牺牲小我，奉献大我。我要拿出这帖子奉献给世人赏阅，我要把这个帖子一直往上顶，往上顶!顶到所有人都看到为止! 在遇到你之前，我对人世间是否有真正的圣人是怀疑的;而现在，我终于相信了!我曾经忘情于两汉的歌赋，我曾经惊讶于李杜的诗才，我曾经流连于宋元的词曲。但现在，我才知道我有多么浅薄!
淺眸丶流年
发表于 2023-1-19 23:24:04
每一个人首先是并且实际上确实是寄居在自身的皮囊里，他并不是生活在他人的见解之中。
呢莆池
发表于 2023-1-23 00:53:22
读过这个楼主很多文章，确实都还不错，感谢，加油。
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