You have a dream of Red Mansions, but you live in the world of Water Margin. You want to make friends with the Taoyuan brothers in the Three Kingdoms, but you always meet the demons and ghosts from Journey to the West.
3、人性最浅薄的地方就是:一错抵百好。
The shallowest part of human nature is that one mistake is worth a hundred.
The things that are easy to get, no one will feel precious, just the right amount of indifference, on the contrary, will make people happy, most people are so, both bitchy and pitiful.
He who burns no incense offends God; he who speaks no offense offends people. Good men are mean-talkers and bad men are sweet-talkers. Poisonous grass is always blooming charming flowers, harm your people say what you want to hear.
7、总有人相濡以沫很多年,却输给天真或明媚的一张脸。
There are always people who love each other for many years, but lost to a naive or coquetty face.
The vinegar that is not eligible to eat is the most sour, the person who is moved first is the most miserable, the possessiveness that has no status is the most terrible, the emotion that is not controlled is both sad and ridiculous, in fact, you are nothing in other peoples heart.
9、斟酌他人的感受之前,无妨再斟酌一下他人有没有斟酌你的感受。
Before you consider the feelings of others, consider whether they consider your feelings.
10、天下上最好的抚慰并不是告诉对方一切城市好起来的,而是哭着脸说:“哭个屁,你看,我比你还惨!”
The best comfort in the world is not to tell each other that everything is going to be okay, but to cry and say, Cry shit, you see, Im worse off than you!